If it feels like your sex life has gone right into hibernation over a period of time. Then it is about time to spice it up! A lot of relationships is crashing because of a dead sex life. For so many people sex gets down to just sex, while it should be about enjoying, sharing and building an intimate relationship. There are a number of reasons why an active sex life can simply go into hibernation after awhile. Luckily, here are some of the ways to spice up your sex life.
Slip Into A Sexy Nightwear
Forget about the baggy T-Shirt for the night and slip into a sexy bed lace. Or choose one of silk or satin, but make sure it’s short enough. Seeing your curves under that silk nightgown will light up his imagination, and he won’t be able to keep his hands to himself. Wear flirty coloured gown like red or orange, or stick with the classic black or white gown.
Find His or Her Fetishes
Everybody has things that turn him or her immensely on. What turns one person on might not be the same thing that turns another person on. We are all different people. You need to find that spot, that thing that drives them crazy. For some ladies, it could be talking really dirty. For some guys, it could be a blowjob or a sensual massage. Find out what makes your spouse turned on and use it.
Try A Sex Toy
There have been numerous research about sex toys, a recent one by Ann Summers. It shows that 3 in every 5 couple use sex toy together at least every fourth night. There are different couples sex toys that you can choose from. The “Vibrating Love ring” or penis ring is great for couples that haven’t tried a sex toy before. Thanks to the vibration, the ring keeps the blood flowing to the penis consistently, leaving it up longer. Toys like the Dorcel power clit can be a great tool for women. They are made with protruding sections featuring raised nodules, which stimulates the clitoris during intercourse and giving the ultimate sense of pleasure that will soon turn into an extasy.
Turn Your Bedroom Into A Boudoir
Are you sick of walking into your bedroom and find the clothes on the bed and all that? You should be because it just keeps reminding you of the work that needs to be done. No wonder why your sex life is off the key. Instead of walking into another room, turn your bedroom into a boudoir. Decorate it with some beautiful candles, so you can dim the lights and play soft music that you guys will enjoy together. Forget about the TV for a moment – research shows that about 40% of the couples that have TV in their bedrooms suffer from bad sex life.
Update Your Undies
The use of sexy underwear is a complete turn on for most men. Hipsters or Yoga panties are really lovely for grocery runs. But in bed, you want to show more skin with sexier panties. Wearing soft bright coloured panties that complement your bra will send a teasing message to him. Even before he returns from work, you can create a night full of expectations by sending him a picture of your new underwear. As he is on his way back, that will be the only thing in his mind.